The Lead Assembly

SEX IN CHURCH The subject of  sex is more than just preaching and shouting, we must strategically run programs that will help the church have dominion over this secret pandemic. There are many good Christians who struggle with  masturbation  and pornography daily, yet they dare not speak because the church will crucify and condemn them.  Many pastors think getting married will cure the illness of sexual addiction, so they encourage people to marry early to avoid sexual temptation. NEWS FLASH : Whatever you didn't conquer before marriage will harass you in marriage, the sexual problem you didn't deal with before marriage will deal with you in marriage.  I have seen several churches organise prayer meetings to bind the spirit of sexual immorality among Nigerian youths but I am yet to see any visible intervention that is geared towards creating a counter culture that can churn out superior alternatives in the form of content and promote a Kingdom culture instead. ...

SEX IN CHURCH Kosi was a young pastor  with fire, a rugged Christian with unwaving passion for the Kingdom. Pastor K (as he was popularly known), operated in multi-dimentional graces and was also known for teaching sound wisdom from the Word of God.  Pastor K had this charisma that could not be resisted, you cannot but love him. He had his way around people; his intelligent manner of communicating with humor will always leave you thrilled. He also had the ears of both the political, business and religious leaders of his community. Pastor K was that man that gets results effortlessly, though young yet he did exploits  that were way beyond his age and counterparts. He had a very beautiful and humble wife which made their union a model to many marriages and families but Pastor K was ravaging and sinking deep with this secret illness that he wouldn't let anyone know about. This illness was so chronic but he just couldn't let it out because of what people will say if they find...

WHAT IS MINISTRY TO YOU? Examine and test and evaluate your own selves to see whether you are holding to your faith and showing the proper fruits of it. Test and prove yourselves [not Christ]. Do you not yourselves realize and know [thoroughly by an ever-increasing experience] that Jesus Christ is in you–unless you are [counterfeits] disapproved on trial and rejected? 2 Corinthians 13:5 AMPC For days I have been struggling to post this article because of the fear of being misunderstood, but as a leader sometimes we step on toes to do what is right. Ministry has been misused, misinterpreted, and to some extent abused. The coming of this pandemic, COVID 19 was a blessing in disguise, It came to expose whether you were in ministry or something else. As a pastor and as someone who has been and seen ministry in different forms and shades I get bordered whenever I hear people teach and do ministry in a certain way. To an average pastor or Christian leader out there, when you sa...

THE LEADER'S ROLE Proverbs 23:7 King James Version (KJV)  For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee. 1You cannot go contrary from your  dominant thought. You ultimately become what you think, 3, One of the crucial responsibility of A Leaders is to shape the  minds of the Lead help  refocus  their thoughts with thoughts that engenders destiny Actualisation. 4,As a Leader you need to listen, observe,discern  and investigate the dominant thought of your followers. 5,With my little experience in leadership, haven  lead different people from different fields ,ages, background and exposure, I can say this emphatically, what goes on in their minds most times are not nice at all. 6, People are going through secret stuffs like dangerous low self esteem, depression, fear,unforgiveness and bitterness, just to mention a few. 7, Reshaping the mind is not what you do erratically,it...

You can never be different from what goes on in your mind, a man is a reflection of his dominant thoughts. Your mind is either a lid to your progress or an acceleration for your progress. The mind is influence by 1) THE FAMILY: there's 90% livelihood that you will end up with similar life experience with your parent if there is no mind shift, if your parent only think and speak lack ,it then starts to form your mindset which you'll eventually toll that path  unless there is a deliberate mind shift. 2,THE ENVIRONMENT: Do you ever wonder why children and people who grow up in slums tend to be more violent, This is  because that's what their environment teaches them,the  interactions that goes on in your environment, the life style has major role in forming your mindset, we are largely a product of our environment. 3,EDUCATION:  Education is and an institutionalised system of mind shift, the kind and level  of education you get will determine how you v...

 Few years ago while pastoring a small branch of a church, A lady met me for counselling ,her issue was about a solution for her abusive relationship, After hearing all her  story and what she had to say , the only solution that I could proffer  was for her to opt out of the relationship.. It was quite an interesting one because when I told her to end it,she got angry at me for saying that,her reaction was surprising to me ,she wanted a reason to keep staying in the relationship not a solution. her issue was a mind issue, the guy has her mind caged with manipulation, He kept her where he wanted her to be. The guy will heat her but blame it on  having anger issues, cheat on her but blame it on her for not being available, the list goes on,her real issue was her mind .she was a prisoner of her own mind. This case Here is similar to that of  countless others, who are being imprisoned by their own mind,  1. What  controls your mind controls y...