SEX IN CHURCH pt2.

SEX IN CHURCH

The subject of  sex is more than just preaching and shouting, we must strategically run programs that will help the church have dominion over this secret pandemic. There are many good Christians who struggle with  masturbation  and pornography daily, yet they dare not speak because the church will crucify and condemn them. 

Many pastors think getting married will cure the illness of sexual addiction, so they encourage people to marry early to avoid sexual temptation.

NEWS FLASH : Whatever you didn't conquer before marriage will harass you in marriage, the sexual problem you didn't deal with before marriage will deal with you in marriage. 

I have seen several churches organise prayer meetings to bind the spirit of sexual immorality among Nigerian youths but I am yet to see any visible intervention that is geared towards creating a counter culture that can churn out superior alternatives in the form of content and promote a Kingdom culture instead.

 The Nigerian church needs to creatively solve critical sexuality problems. For instance, 8 out of every 10 Christian can’t tell what is truly wrong with Masturbation other than “My pastor says it is demonic”. However, this is no longer a sustainable explanation for millennials who are bombarded with different views on the internet. 

Dear Pastor, it's time to wake up to this reality and find the solution to this epidemic killing people in church secretly. Don't be judgemental but recognize that it's a disease and the victims need help. God help us all!

 JOHN OKOI 

(Leadership Expert)